How to recover from burnout

Are you feeling like you can’t work anymore? Is your productivity tanking because your brain shuts down whenever you face a task? Do you vacillate between guilt for poor quality work and frustration for wasting time away from home? You may be suffering from burnout.

Depending on your work, days at your job can become long tests of endurance and willpower. When repeated for too long, burnout can set in and severely limit your ability to keep going.

Many workplaces keep quiet about the fact that burnout is pretty standard, but it’s a fact that many people stretch themselves too thin without knowing it. So, what can you do once you’re in burnout?

The science of your mental health

Like it or not, your brain is composed of physical materials that depend on a stable composition to function correctly. When those chemicals start to fall out of balance—whether from stressors, too little sleep, poor diet, injury, or countless other causes—they alter a person’s ability to process the daily stresses of life. Bad days stretch into bad weeks/months/years.

Because we are, at our core, animals, we prioritize survival above all else. Our brain chemicals serve this purpose by moderating stress levels to match our situation.

Adrenaline, for example, gives people the energy needed to lift cars off of people or run miles without rest. Serotonin is responsible for moderating memory and biological rhythms like sleep.

Cortisol (a stress-related hormone) increases blood sugar, metabolizes fats and proteins, and limits inflammation caused by immune responses.

Cortisol is valuable in short bursts, sustaining the body during times of danger. Over long periods, however, this kind of stress harms the body.

Over time, increased cortisol levels can:

• Weaken the immune system and lead to more illness
• Prevent the growth of new bone, posing problems to calcium absorption
• Burn up proteins before muscles can absorb them
• Increase sodium absorption, altering electrolyte balances
• Damage the long-term memory capability of the hippocampus (one sign of burnout is memory loss)

Like anything in life, moderation is everything. Keeping brain chemicals in balance takes effort, and being overworked can quickly disrupt that balance, even when physical symptoms appear.

To experience burnout is to live where your survival feels threatened; the only solution is to reduce that stress.

Burnout recovery starts with the basics

Drink more water, get enough sleep, take walks throughout the day, make time for friends and family, and find a way to be creative.

Burnout isn’t necessarily easy to overcome, but many people end up stressed out because they aren’t making time for what’s truly important: health of the physical, mental, and emotional varieties.

These are not negotiable pastimes reserved for those with a little extra time on their hands—they must be prioritized.

Let’s reiterate the suggestions above: set water goals to ensure you drink enough, don’t get to bed later than midnight, take walks at 11 a.m. and 3 p.m., call (or send text messages to) a family member once a week, and get messy with art as often as possible (painting, music, cooking, collage, journaling, etc.).

Some employers see breaks during work as a frivolous waste of time. Those employers don’t realize that workers who take frequent breaks nearly always produce better work.

And for the record, employers who don’t value breaks are more likely to have a burnt-out workforce.

In the words of Katt Williams, “If it’s 24 hours a day, then what the [bleep] is night? They don’t tell you it’s only 12 hours a day because then you wouldn’t give them 8.” Your health depends on your ability to stamp out time for yourself.

Unfortunately, your employer isn’t always likely to give it to you willingly. Work is inevitable, but practicing boundaries will make a difference against chronic stress—self-care matters.

Making room for better mental health

On the opposite side of those basics mentioned above are habits that don’t do you any good. Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling through social media? Working long hours Monday through Friday? How often do you get regular exercise? While these simple questions won’t be enough to cure burnout completely, they can help.

With all the mental illness linked to social media, it’s a minor miracle it’s still unregulated. Social media is a surefire way to pinch your self-esteem and feel a little worse about your day, which is no surprise to any of us.

The torrent of highlights from other people’s lives engenders jealousy and exhaustion, as it is impossible to reach the end of the feed and honestly know whether what you’re seeing is real.

Social media is designed to keep you safely locked into your ideas without worrying about the validity of other ideas that challenge or harm your beliefs.

Give yourself and your well-being a media break by leaving your phone at home and walking.

Your body needs exercise

In our prehistoric former lives, days were spent working or farming for food—both far more demanding tasks than the effort required to eat today. Across the world, people are living longer, growing taller, and weighing more.

However, this leaves us with much energy that can only be discharged through physical activity.

If regular exercise isn’t part of your routine, it’s time to find something you like and get moving. Some people need a personal trainer or physical therapist to cultivate the habit, while others need a buddy to join them on the court.

However, don’t feel limited to formal avenues of exercise—any activity that gets your heart rate up and makes you sweat a little is appropriate.

While exercise isn’t a comprehensive answer to burnout, spending too many days without it can contribute to emotional exhaustion more than one might think, fraying nerves and destabilizing emotions.

Eat healthy food

If you work so much that you can’t step away long enough to eat something nutritious, you may show signs of burnout, which eventually takes its toll on your body.

While unhealthy food will keep you fueled enough to stay on task, saturated fats and excess sugars/carbohydrates commonly found in fast food could dampen your physical health, sending your body into recovery mode and clouding your mind.

Eating healthy isn’t always convenient—that’s an unfortunate truth—but with some foresight and meal planning, you can put things into your body that will have you operating at your best. Just a little effort will do the trick.

There’s no need to see a dietician and draft a meal schedule months in advance, but it’s probably time to eat less pizza and a little more vegetables. Consider a meal delivery service if you don’t have time to make healthy meals.

Go outside more

In the work-from-home era, spending long periods indoors is remarkably easy. Whether it’s a desire to get more work done or a fear of having to smile and wave at neighbors, staying home is one of the most common coping strategies for burnout. Your body needs some outside air.

One excellent stress management technique is to go somewhere you can’t get cell service and focus on enjoying nature. If you’re lucky enough to live by mountains, camping is a fantastic option for a quick reset. However, don’t dismiss the value of a walk around your neighborhood either.

Look up some scenic locations near where you live, pack a lunch, and forget about work for a while. It’s a cheap/free way to escape screen life, if only for a moment.

Read a book now & then

It’s rarely easy to make time for things that don’t seem essential. Eating is a must, so working it into the day is natural. Are you reading, though? Not so much, yet the benefits of reading are well-documented.

Those who suffer from burnout tend to let their minds wander to where the frustration of work-life snowballs into existential dread. With reading, however, that energy is stoked and channeled somewhere productive—an alternate reality where daily life fades into the pages before you.

Fiction is a great way to fully remove yourself from your problems and forget about what’s bothering you for a while.

Is reading a short-term distraction? Yes. It may not solve burnout for good, but it’s a great way to broaden one’s perspective and enhance the capacity for empathy. Some therapy methods even utilize reading as a way to envision a happy place to go when stress becomes overwhelming.

Music works too

Not a long-term solution by any means, but popping in your favorite album can quickly boost your mood. Music is one of those things that speak to your soul. Artists who speak to you can make you feel seen and understood, which is lacking when burnout is present.

Talking about your Problems

Despite our best efforts—adequate sleep, healthy food, regular exercise—burnout can burrow deep within and make a nest that’s difficult to sweep out. The next step is to find somewhere to express it, whether to a friend, a therapist, or (as a last resort) to your boss.

You can start by talking to your friends or loved ones. Let them know you’re not seeking a solution to your problem but just a listening ear. Focus on how you feel rather than how you wish things were.

They express feelings and force you to contact the emotional parts of yourself that can be silenced by burnout. Expressing feelings takes effort. It requires slowing down and using more gut feeling than mind. Friends (or co-workers) who listen to these problems are golden.

However, not everyone wants to hear about your work-related problems—even your friends. You may have to seek a more professional confidant.

The value of therapy cannot be overstated. Help from a trained counselor can guide you in putting the stress of work into perspective. On top of that, a therapist can show you if your personal biases are getting in the way of your ability to be happy.

We are often our own worst enemy when it comes to work-life balance issues, so if your insurance covers it, take the time to locate a local experienced therapy professional. It pays dividends.

Bringing Issues to Your Boss

Not all problems can be solved outside work, however. Prolonged burnout requires a plan of action, and that plan may start with talking to the right manager. Conversations like these must be handled tactfully—yelling that you’re sick of work isn’t likely to go over well.

Instead, could you frame the issue in terms of career goals? Your work is suffering because you feel overextended or unable to meet the demands placed on you.

Should you decide to speak to a manager about burnout, remember to:

• Stay focused on how you feel. Avoid blame. Job burnout is primarily a feeling of being overwhelmed, which, while valid in many instances, is no one else’s “fault.” Stick to how you feel rather than how things ought to be. Your boss will be less likely to jump on the defensive.
• Provide avenues for help. If your manager could assist, what would it look like? Tell them about it. Being specific turns your case into a problem to be solved rather than an attitude to be adjusted.
• Express your desire to continue contributing. Make it clear that you’re not quitting, just struggling. This is a normal part of life and work, and just having that kind of support can be the difference between moving forward and feeling stuck.

If you’ve been working your butt off to be a strong team member, you’ve earned the right to have your concerns heard and addressed.

Everything is temporary

Be patient. Try not to make any rash decisions when you feel burnt out. Sometimes, all that’s needed is a change of seasons—in a month, you may find the strength to get through it.

Of course, there’s always the chance that you’re ready for a job change. If that’s the case, try to do any job hunting while still employed. This will allow you to negotiate your salary from a position of power.

You can even use another job offer to negotiate a higher salary with your current employer. Who knows? Looking for another job may cause you to question your decision and decide to stick around.

Life is uncertain, and security is an illusion. Work occupies a significant part of our lives, so finding a way to make it livable is critical to our ability to thrive. If you’re feeling burnt out, do everyone a favor and share your feelings. We need more of that.

More Resources:
Spotting the stages of burnout before they escalate
Time management techniques to improve productivity and reduce burnout
The burnout epidemic: Why it’s happening and how to fix it