Question: “I’m a little uncertain about job interview etiquette—more specifically, what comes afterward. How long do I wait to send a thank-you email, and is that a good time to elaborate at length on how I feel about the job, or even try to correct some impression I may have accidentally given? How should I close such an email, and is it even necessary to send one if I’m no longer interested in being hired?” – Kenny, unemployed admin
Christi Labs is the assistant to the president and CEO of Omaha Public Power District in Omaha, Nebraska, which is one of the largest publicly owned electric utilities in the U.S.
What guidelines are there for sending email invitations for a formal event?
Question: “I’ve heard many times from colleagues and people close to me that I’m just not assertive enough to really get ahead and achieve the things I want. But this is the way I’ve been all my life and I’m not sure I can change. Does anyone know of some good first steps to try?” – Mercedes, Fashion Assistant
Question: “I’ve been at my new admin job for three months now. It’s going fine, except the place where I work has to be the stuffiest, least fun company ever. It’s totally quiet all day with almost no interaction, and there’s no real culture, no fun events to look forward to. If it weren’t for brief friendly words in the kitchen with co-workers now and then, I think I’d go nuts! I don’t expect to be able to change the office’s ways—I’d just like to know how others have managed to stay upbeat and energetic in a sleepy atmosphere like this.” – Madison, Contracts Researcher
Question: “After two years on the job, I’ve been given permission to come up with my own job title—my boss doesn’t put much stock in them. Right now I’m basically your average administrative assistant, but I wonder if sprucing up my title will look good on a résumé or LinkedIn should I need to look for work somewhere else. Who knows, maybe I could gain more credibility here in the office, too. Should I call myself something a little fancier, or is there a downside to it?” – Melanie, Rehoboth, Del.
Question: “The company I work for caters every meeting no matter how brief, spends thousands of dollars for a service to keep office plants looking nice, constantly renovates to add TVs nobody watches and parking spaces nobody uses. I guess we can afford it, but I’m considering discussing this with my boss. I’m wondering about other admins’ experiences with bringing up the delicate subject of the company throwing money away on extravagant things. What’s the best way to go about it when I’m not totally sure how else that money should be spent—only that it seems enormously wasteful?” – Annabelle, Transcriber
Question: “The one thing I don’t like about my new admin job is that we have to rate our co-workers every year! I’m dreading filling out that form. It asks us to rate people on a scale from 1 to 5 in a number of different work categories. The ratings are anonymous, but I’m afraid being really honest will cause resentment and strife if someone receives an accumulation of mediocre ratings. Realistically, wouldn’t it be better to avoid giving 1s and 2s no matter how I feel, and just let our manager deal with visible performance problems?” – Monty, Tech Documentation Specialist
Question: “I’ve always hated the queasy ‘new job’ feeling that makes the first week at work so uncomfortable and uncertain, and now that I’m settled in as the head of my admin team, I really want to make new hires feel completely at ease from the very first morning they come to work for us. Does anyone have any tricks for getting someone to relax and take the first few days totally in stride?” – Wallace, Lead Admin
Question: “I have to send out 50 email invitations to a formal business dinner for important donors—the first of many, I think—and I’m really not sure how to address the recipients or phrase these invitations. There’ll be no attachment. What should such an email look and sound like? In particular, what about the greeting, conclusion and subject line, and should I include any images or designs to give it a different tone than a normal email?” – Angelina, Membership Coordinator