Everyone I’ve ever discussed the concept of trust with has a wide range of emotions related to it. Trust is about more than just the words we say and the actions we exhibit—there is a deeper level of trust that can be built consciously, if you are aware of it, and are willing to be courageous.
It doesn’t seem to matter what the topic of the training or conversation, time management always comes up. It shouldn’t be a surprise—time management books and courses are perpetually popular. I don’t believe the issue is about time management at all. It is about choice management, and that, my friends, is a torch we as leaders must carry.
While there are many things you could be measuring, considering and thinking about at this time of the year, I’m going to suggest you take an unusual inventory. This isn’t likely one you have considered often, and won’t be one written about much in the coming days, but it could be as influential as any you could undertake. I’m encouraging you to take an inventory of your associations and relationships.
As I write this, there are still two weeks left in the year. Two weeks – almost 4% of the year. Yet many people are already in holiday-coasting mode. So what do I mean by finishing strong?
Have you ever heard the old quotation, “When the student is ready, the teacher appears”? At that moment of readiness we are most open to new ideas, most aware of our shortfalls, and most desirous of improvement. This is the coachable moment.
The story itself matters, but at least as important is the effective telling of it – telling it at the right time and to the right audience. Most important though, for us as leaders, is knowing exactly why we are telling it, and telling it expressly to make that point.
Personality and communication style assessments are popular training tools—they garner high marks from participants because they are interesting and fun. Trainers can use them to ensure good reviews and perhaps get a chance to come back to deliver more training. But how can these assessments actually be used by a leader to become a better communicator?
Many who read this will be celebrating Thanksgiving in the coming days. While on different dates with different origins, many countries celebrate some sort of Thanksgiving during the year. For those of us in the United States, this holiday has come to represent a chance for families to gather, eat too much, watch football, and perhaps prepare for Black Friday shopping. Oh yes, and to give thanks for our blessings.
I take notes in most every learning situation I encounter, including at church. It is a way for me to stay engaged and learning during an important 90 minutes of my week. Aaron Brockett, the lead pastor of Traders Point Christian Church outside of Indianapolis, has said something that has made it into my notes several times and stayed in my mind. It is a simple but powerful idea expressed as a mathematical equation.
I grew up on a farm. We raised a variety of crops, had a fertilizer and seed business, and we raised hogs. For most of my growing up, our hog operation was pretty small, and feeding was done somewhat automatically. Feed was prepared every few days and loaded into feeders, and gravity fed the feed to the animals as they ate. While you didn’t want them to run out of food (we were trying to help them grow as fast as possible after all), it wasn’t an everyday task.